What if I told you that this is it? There’s nothing more to life. That life is just a series of good days and bad days, some days you will be over the moon, while others you will be under the weather. What if someone told you, once the chase is through there will always be another, and when you think the worst is over there’s always something that tops it. Same with all the positives, just when you thought you have done all that you can, you somehow still mysteriously surprise yourself that you still have more ways to grow. You don’t see yourself as a successful person, but…

(Reposted from my Medium article dated 6 May,2020). I’m in my early-to-mid 30s, all my closest friends have paired up and settled down into family lives. With societal pressure once looming on me, I had once decided to put in all I’ve got in my limited window of time to proactively find a significant other that I too can settle down with for life. It seemed easy, I told myself they’re right, I need to stop being so picky, give people a chance and life’s not perfect, I’m not perfect, you just need to pick someone to settle down with, everyone needs to settle down eventually…right? With zero prospects within…